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A Perfect Love
After divorce some amount of healing can occur through friends, community support, and learning to change certain behaviors. But complete healing of our souls and spirits, and restoration to a place of total joy, can only come from the one who created us. Do you really know him yet?
He's strong and vibrant, powerful and perfect. He gave you life and calls you by name. He knows every inch of you, inside and out, and adores you despite your flaws. He sees in you what no one else sees, and he values you more than life itself.
He sends you flowers in the springtime and baskets of fruit in the summer. He brings you sunshine in the mornings and rainbows to let you know he is still with you even in the tough times.
He would never leave you in a rut, so he sends the change of seasons to spice up your life. When it's hot, he sends shade and cool water. When it's cold, he provides you with the heat of a fire and the comfort of warm wool.
He promises to meet your needs, dry your tears, and be your strength in time of trouble. He is the rock on which you can build your life, your home, and your family. He will be your husband. He also will be father to your children and love them more than you ever could.
He is the maker of heaven and earth. He is power and glory and might, and at his name every knee shall bend and every head shall bow.
He will never betray you or abandon you, and he will heal your broken heart.
He loves you.
He is with you always ... even after divorce, even until the end of time.
Background Information
The Effects of Divorce
Divorce harms more of your life than you might think.
Questions and Answers
My husband has only hit me once, in a big fight we had. Should I separate from him?
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Stories
Division and Separation…But Not Divorce
Our separation stemmed from depression, pornography and unemployment. Despite the hardships we faced, we were determined not to let our marriage fail.

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Other Things to Consider
Hope for Couples in Crisis
The key to dealing with marital strife lies in respect.
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