drugs and alcohol
Question and Answer
It is commonly understood that peer pressure causes teenagers to begin smoking or using drugs. Is that what really motivates them to pick up dangerous habits?
That precise question was the subject of a recent survey. The researchers studied more than 16,000 schoolchildren in Orange County, Calif. They found that it was family members, not classmates or teachers, who had the biggest influence on whether children used drugs, alcohol or tobacco. If teenagers felt that their parents or siblings approved of smoking, they were likely to follow suit. And if there was one person who could convince them not to participate, it was usually a member of their own family. Many parents feel this is an area that can be left to the schools, and they neglect to talk about it at home. But this study and others have shown that family pressure, not peer pressure, has the greatest effect on children. 1
Another finding to come out of the investigation is that children are still dangerously unaware of the hazards of smoking. Obviously, the antismoking advertising campaign has not reached their tender ears.
Like other messages we want our children to hear, the responsibility to communicate them lies with parents. Talk to your sons and daughters when they are young about the dangers of cigarette smoking. Tell them that you don't approve of the habit. Discuss the health hazards, including the risk of cancer and lung disease. And offer them professional help in quitting if they've already started. Warn them repeatedly about drug abuse and what it can do to the body. Parents can make a difference in avoiding addictive behavior in their children if they take the time to teach them. Most of them can even counterbalance the peer group.
- Lily Eng, "Study Measures Drug Abuse by Orange County Students," Los Angeles Times, 16 January 1992, A1.
Background Information
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The Gateway Drugs
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Questions and Answers
My teenager already has a problem with drugs. What do I do now?
Answer
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Stories
It Would Never Happen to Us
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Do What I Do
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