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Question and Answer
Should we discourage our son from getting involved in a "summer romance?"
There's nothing inherently evil about summer romances. They've been around since the Beach Boys first got their surfboards wet. Likewise, a teen shouldn't feel like an outcast if they don't have someone on their arm between Memorial Day and Labor Day. The important thing is that any relationship during any season be a healthy one.
Your tie to your son is important. Try to stay as involved in his life during the summer as you have been throughout the school year. Make your home a place he and his friends — including any special young ladies — feel comfortable. Your sincere love and encouragement can create a healthy, safe, godly environment for summer fun.
Also, summer romances are usually just that — "summer" relationships. Help your son think of it in those terms. That way, a September breakup won't be as devastating. If things are still working out at that time, then you can talk about it further.
Background Information
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Red Flags for Parents and Teens in Dating Relationships
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To Date or Not to Date
How you view dating and marriage will determine your teen's expectation when he goes to middle and high school.
Questions and Answers
Our 16-year-old daughter has started dating. How do we help her keep perspective and avoid trouble?
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Proms sure have changed since I was in school. I'm a little nervous about allowing my teenage daughter to go. What should I do?
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