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Making Prom a Success
The success of prom night begins long before the tux is put on. As we've already mentioned, talking about your teen's prom-night expectations is vital. Here are some other key action steps to think about in advance:
- Discuss a budget. Life goes on after the prom ... as do payments on flowers, photos, rentals, etc. Relieve some of the pressure he might feel to "keep up with the Joneses." Help your son plan a memorable evening that's also economical.
- Establish an itinerary. Make sure he communicates it clearly to his date's parents as well. Be specific. Where will dinner be? When does it begin and end? Is there an after-prom activity? Who will be in the vehicle? Who will drive? Feel free to verify the information with phone calls.
- Have a heart-to-heart talk about sexual self-control. He should commit to respecting both his own body and his date's. (Young ladies in particular should be careful about what they wear. Modesty and good taste should be the rule rather than creating unnecessary temptation.)
- Provide prayerful support. Let him know you'll be praying for a safe and enjoyable evening. Give your teen phone money and the invitation to call "Dad's All Night Taxi Service" in case plans turn sour (a disrespectful date, a driver who chooses to drink, etc.). Teens need to know you'll be there for them without creating a scene.
Background Information
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Questions and Answers
Our 16-year-old daughter has started dating. How do we help her keep perspective and avoid trouble?
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Proms sure have changed since I was in school. I'm a little nervous about allowing my teenage daughter to go. What should I do?
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Should we discourage our son from getting involved in a "summer romance"?
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