low self-esteem
How Low Can They Go?
Adolescence can be a discouraging time for young people. When society tells kids that dignity is tied to appearance, they may start to feel ugly. Parents have high — sometimes over-inflated — expectations, hopes and dreams. They may belittle their kids, negating their accomplishments by neglecting to encourage them enough. Additionally, bullies may harass or abuse them, changing school into a negative environment. These pressures take a toll on children who are already confused from their physical and emotional changes. As a result, it can hide their uniqueness, talents and personality.
The consequences of low self-esteem may result in average or below average grades at school. Some students may sit alone in the lunchroom, feeling isolated and ostracized. Low self-esteem may even cause some children to commit suicide. The pressures of life seem to be an endless cycle that only gets worse.
Although parents can't expunge all of life 's struggles from their kids ' lives, you can guide them through the toughest years. Most importantly, you can teach your kids that beauty comes from within. Encouraging them to try new activities may help them discover a new talent. Attending sporting events, PTA meetings and communicating with teachers show that you are interested in what goes on in their lives. A boost of self-confidence provides hope; helping kids take pride in today 's accomplishments and anticipate tomorrow 's adventures.
Background Information
Signs of Bullying
Parent, teachers, coaches, and even friends can benefit from learning what signs to look for that may indicate that your child is having a problem being bullied.
Self-Esteem Programs Get Low Grades
Can a school curriculum adequately fill kids with decent values?
Stage Fright
Understanding what makes kids lose their composure can help them regain it.
To Each His Own
It’s normal for some kids to learn at a slower pace.
Unfair Comparisons
Jealousy is often the by-product of comparison.
Questions and Answers
You have said that children and young people are experiencing an epidemic of self-doubt and feelings of low self-esteem. Why do you think this is true?
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My 16-year-old daughter wasn"t asked to the prom and she"s crushed. As a dad, what can I do to help build her up?
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Review Frequently Asked Questions
Stories
The Wounded Spirit
Bullying is not the harmless youthful activity some think it is. It inflicts psychological scars that can last a lifetime.
If you've been through a experience related to this topic, we invite you to share your story with others.Share Your Story
Other Things to Consider
The Perfect Child
A little perfectionism goes a long way. Too much can be a real downer for kids.
Related Topics
Transitions: Having a Baby, Preparing for Adolescence
Life Pressures: Working Moms, Stay-At-Home Moms, Time for Family
Relationships: Parents and Adult Children, Blended Families
