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How Much is Too Much?
Believe it or not, your teen and his peers are very interested in the topic of sex and the changes that are occurring physically and emotionally during adolescence. Listed below are topics that should be covered with your teen at the appropriate age:
Ages 10 to 13
Girls should know about:
Menstruation
Breast development
Hormonal changes
Emotional changes relative to menstruation and reproductive organ development
Stages of body growth
Bodily hair changes
Skin changes (breakouts, clogged pores) and hygiene due to hormonal changes
Female reproductive organs and the body's role in reproduction
How conception and pregnancy occur
Male reproductive organs and their role in pregnancy
Variance in the timing of physical development
Recognizing the unique beauty in each individual
How our culture, namely the media, influences how society treats sex, purity and abstinence
Guys should know about:
Bodily changes (including growth in height, weight, body hair and voice deepening)
Skin changes (breakouts and clogged pores)
Nocturnal emissions or "wet dreams"
Reproductive organ development
How physical changes contribute to create emotional changes during adolescence
Reproductive organ development in females and how conception and pregnancy occur
Variance in the timing of physical development
Recognizing the unique beauty in each individual
How genetics play an important part in development, for example, what we inherit from our family in terms of body appearance, growth and disease factors
How our culture, namely the media, influences how society treats sex, purity and abstinence
Background Information
Journey of No Return
Sometimes as parents, we have a knee-jerk response to our kids as we're barraged by their numerous inquires and desires. Maybe it's time to stop being so negative.
When Not To Discipline
Parents should recognize when they should and shouldn't discipline their children.
When You Feel Like Calling in the SWAT Team
Are your children constantly testing you? This classic parenting advice will help you regain the upper hand.
Questions and Answers
After I spank my child, she usually wants to hug me and make up, but I continue to be cool to her for a few hours. Do you think that is right?
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We'd like to be more unified in our approach, but how do we successfully move from two financial approaches to one?
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How long do you think a child should be allowed to cry after being punished? Is there a limit?
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I have never spanked my 3-year-old because I am afraid it will teach her to hit others and be a violent person. Do you think I am wrong?
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It just seems barbaric to cause pain to a defenseless child. Is it healthy to spank him or her?
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Stories
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Other Things to Consider
Ten Things Toddlers Wish They Could Tell You
It can do wonders for the frazzled parent to know what's going on in the mind of your little one.
Related Topics
Transitions: Having a Baby, Preparing for Adolescence
Life Pressures: Working Moms, Stay-At-Home Moms, Time for Family
Relationships: Parents and Adult Children, Blended Families
