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Infertility and Adoption
At no time in the history of the United States have more couples been hoping to adopt than today. There are more infertile couples, in actual numbers, than ever before, and there is a higher incidence of infertility among married couples than at any time in American history. Although hard figures are not available, it is estimated that between 20 and 25 percent of all married couples experience an infertility problem of sufficient concern as to cause them to seek out medical advice.
Until very recently, approximately 12.5 percent of all married couples suffered from an infertility problem so severe that they were unable to bear a child, even with medical attention. In other words, about one-half of all infertile couples have been unable to bear a child even with medical assistance.
People often ask why the rate of infertility has grown so high. We have no simple answer, but the consensus is that the high rate in our society is largely due to cultural and environmental developments. In the pursuit of career goals, women are deferring childbearing, often to an age that is well past their prime childbearing years. As a result, by the time many women feel that they are ready to start their families, it may be biologically too late. Furthermore, as women increasingly pursue careers, they are encountering stress-related infertility problems. For example, a disease called endometriosis, which causes growth to occur on a woman"s reproductive organs, is believed to result, at least in part, from stress — including job stress. For this reason, many obstetricians and gynecologists are referring to endometriosis today as the "career woman"s disease," and it is one of the increasingly common causes of infertility in our society.
Background Information
When Grief Doesn't End
Despair can halt the natural and healthy process of grieving.
Understanding Miscarriage
Here are the symptoms and causes of miscarriage.
What Not to Say
Sometimes even people with good intentions say the most hurtful things.
Questions and Answers
What are some common reactions to a miscarriage?
Answer
When I want to get pregnant again, is there anything I can do to improve my chances of carrying the baby to term?
Answer
Review Frequently Asked Questions
Stories
Suffering Toward God
Facing their daughter's death forces one couple to answer life's hardest questions.
I Never Knew You, Still I Love You
One woman's story of her grieving period when she miscarried.
If you've been through a experience related to this topic, we invite you to share your story with others.Share Your Story
Other Things to Consider
Hope and Comfort From the Bible
If you're asking God why this happened to your baby, here are some of His answers from the Bible.
Where is God in the Midst of All My Troubles?
So many cry out to Him in times of need, but is God really listening? And, more important, does He care?
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