infertility
Infertility and Adoption
At no time in the history of the United States have more couples been hoping to adopt than today. There are more infertile couples, in actual numbers, than ever before, and there is a higher incidence of infertility among married couples than at any time in American history. Although hard figures are not available, it is estimated that between 20 and 25 percent of all married couples experience an infertility problem of sufficient concern as to cause them to seek out medical advice.
Until very recently, approximately 12.5 percent of all married couples suffered from an infertility problem so severe that they were unable to bear a child, even with medical attention. In other words, about one-half of all infertile couples have been unable to bear a child even with medical assistance.
People often ask why the rate of infertility has grown so high. We have no simple answer, but the consensus is that the high rate in our society is largely due to cultural and environmental developments. In the pursuit of career goals, women are deferring childbearing, often to an age that is well past their prime childbearing years. As a result, by the time many women feel that they are ready to start their families, it may be biologically too late. Furthermore, as women increasingly pursue careers, they are encountering stress-related infertility problems. For example, a disease called endometriosis, which causes growth to occur on a woman"s reproductive organs, is believed to result, at least in part, from stress — including job stress. For this reason, many obstetricians and gynecologists are referring to endometriosis today as the "career woman"s disease," and it is one of the increasingly common causes of infertility in our society.
Background Information
You're Not Alone
Infertility afflicts millions. Thankfully, there are many effective treatment options.
Questions and Answers
Our doctor has access to fertilized eggs that will be destroyed unless implanted in a recipient woman. How do you think God would view our accepting the eggs and giving life to one of them?
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When I want to get pregnant again, is there anything I can do to improve my chances of carrying the baby to term?
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Stories
Empty Womb, Aching Heart
Infertile. Such a cold word for such an emotional condition. For one couple, the end of the story is better than the beginning.
Am I Less of a Man?
I thought I could handle anything. After all, I was a man's man. A tackle-football, monster-truck, built-Ford-tough type of guy. But then the test results came in.
If you've been through a experience related to this topic, we invite you to share your story with others.Share Your Story
Other Things to Consider
Where is God in the Midst of All My Troubles?
So many cry out to Him in times of need, but is God really listening? And, more important, does He care?
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