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Strategies for Choosing Daycare
Use the following three guidelines in conducting your search.
First, look for a home atmosphere with only one or two other children present, rather than a large group setting such as a franchised daycare center. There's just no way kids can get the individualized attention they need in the large group setting. The ideal situation might be to find someone who can come to your home and give your children the most secure environment of all.
Second, do a thorough examination of all potential caregivers. Interview them closely and ask for references. It's not a bad idea to ask local churches for recommendations, but that's not foolproof, either. Examine those people as carefully as any others. And consider only people with a proven record of positive experiences,
Finally, look for care-giving situations that will allow you to maximize your own involvement with your children. Or you can trade baby sitting with a friend. Or you might find a j job sharing g arrangement or a part time position that meets your financial needs but doesn't require you to leave your children with someone else a full eight hours a day. Also explore the possibility of a home based business if you have skills that can be used that way, such as word processing or craft making.
Mom, you have a unique place in your child's life, and you will make a unique impact — one way or the other. Make it the best that's within your power to give.
Background Information
What to Look For In a Nursery School or Playgroup
When you leave your child in someone else's care, there are some concerns you need to consider.
Working Moms Are Nothing New
It's just that they didn't have to leave their babies in daycare to do it.
Questions and Answers
Do you feel it is still important to have Mom at home in the teen years?
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Do you think it is all right for a woman to make it her exclusive career goal to be a wife and mother? Or should there be something else?
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What do you think of placing children in child-care centers so mothers can work?
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Stories
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